Friday was more of a
lax day in terms of riding – our class didn’t start until 1:30 and after that,
we would be done showing for the week. Show Buddy fed for me in the morning,
because apparently I sleep like the dead and didn’t even hear her get up!
I got
myself together slowly and after watching Show Buddy’s western Dressage with
her mare, I puttered over to the stalls and started to get Annie ready. She
seemed really amped for whatever reason and would NOT stand still at the
trailer. She wasn’t pulling back or rearing, but she was so focused on where
other horses were that she swung herself around, pawed, and carried on. I ended
up dosing her with Chill just to see if it could take the edge off. Fun fact –
it didn’t.
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So fancy. So Thoroughbred-y! |
In all the
months I have owned Annie, I have never seen her like that at the trailer
before. My gut tells me this isn’t a “forever” thing, and is only a blip in our
progress. The restlessness and anxiety she felt at the show could have been a
mixture of several elements – we have never been to an overnight show before
and certainly not in the capacity that this show was at. I did have to end up
walking away and letting a friend finish tacking her up for me, as I was
starting to get impatient with her shenanigans and was a little mortified and
embarrassed. Baby horses… so fun.
We did some
ground-work before heading back over to the warm up ring and once I got on her,
she was fabulous to ride. We did walk, trot and canter all over the arena with
some mixture of extensions (more like trotting fast lol) and a ton of
transitions. She quickened her trot after we did our canter work, which is
normal for her, and was compliant when I brought her back and asked her to be a
bit more rhythmic. She felt good, although a bit behind the leg (I sense a theme
here…) and her mind was trying very hard to be with me but I could feel it
wandering. She stared hard at several things – namely the large wagon filled
with people two Clydesdales were pulling around the perimeter of the fair – and
just seemed really tense and nervous.
I hopped
off since I had quite a ways to wait for my class (I had gotten on well in
advance just to be on the safe side) and my friend, N, held Annie while I
chatted with a friend’s mom. It turned out we migrated pretty close to the Dressage
ring which was holding the freestyles and while talking with Trainer K (who was
competing), a small kid came running up with an umbrella. It spooked Annie hard
and she whirled around to take a look at it. Annie stared at it and blew a few
times before the kid’s mom asked him to put it away and I made a mental note to
desensitize her to umbrellas. Just as I
was about to move back to the other ring, the bit check lady from Dressage came
over and reamed us out for being too close to the ring. I agree, we were too
close, but so were several other spectators and competitors. The woman also
mentioned that when Annie spooked, she apparently almost knocked over a woman
who was standing behind her? I didn’t see anyone there, but the lady very
blatantly told me that if my horse is going to spook, she shouldn’t be standing
around spectators. Uh… okay then. I felt bad, mostly because we were in the
wrong by being too close to the ring so we wandered away to the warm up ring
and stood there until it was time to get back on.
Annie
seemed to calm down by this point and was quiet as I hopped back up and entered
the warm up ring. As the wagon with the Clydesdales passed us, she spooked hard
at it (probably the biggest spook I’ve ever ridden on her). I ignored the spook
and let her look at it before returning her back to work. She really didn’t
feel like herself – she felt really insecure and nervous.
Our class
was called and we had to be led to the outside of the ring – we made it a few
steps out of the warm up ring before Annie just would not go forward. I didn’t
have my whip with me, as I wasn’t allowed to use it in the class, so just asked
N to tug us forwards a few steps. Annie complied and entered the ring on her
own with another girl and her horse behind us.
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Just keep trotting... just keep trotting... |
As we
entered, I realized then that I had never ridden Annie in this ring. It was the
Jumper ring and it was HUGE, especially without jumps in it. Annie was trying
hard to be good, but I could feel her wigging out – not in a bad way, but she
was sucking back hard and really nervous about the grand-stands and spectators.
The announcer’s booth spooked her as well.
I did my
best to keep her together and for the most part, she was really trying hard to
be a good girl. As we marched down the ring, I could feel her starting to get
nervous about going to the far end of the arena. I don’t think she realized
another horse was in the ring with us, so I decided to cut across the ring and
start heading back towards the gate. I didn’t need to fight her to go to the
end of the ring and I wanted to show her there was someone else in there with
us without being blatantly obvious about it. And when we came towards the
announcer’s booth, because she had already spooked at it, I asked her to leg
yield away from it and back again. While I realize that asking a horse to leg
yield away from something scary might be counter productive, I had read
something really interesting quite a few years back about a Dutch rider who had
done a similar thing with her horse during a competition and ended up being the
only rider to go clear in the stadium jumping. The idea is that before the
horse spooks, you ask it to yield away from whatever it is and in turn, are
suppling and relaxing the horse vs trying to make it head to whatever is
bothering it straight on. As you work the horse, you will start to yield
towards the Scary Thing and just carry on with whatever you are doing. I don’t
use this method often, but I felt it was helpful in the show ring to keep her
mind focused on something else.
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Tense, hence the chomping. |
She did
really well and even stood quiet when they asked us to line-up for the final
placings. Her back was hollow and rigid, but she still did the thing. So what
more could I ask for? We ended up placing first out of two in this class – the
other horse was an older horse, but in his first show ever. The young rider did
a really good job with him.
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Good pony. So much tongue-action over the weekend! |
Back at the
trailer, Annie kept wigging out. I could barely get the saddle off because she
just kept swinging her haunches all over the place. At one point, I was kind of
sandwiched between her shoulder and the trailer. I gave her a smack and she
didn’t even react to it – just kept staring off into space and whirling her
head around to try and find a horse buddy. I will admit; I did lose my cool
with her. N told me to go get changed, so I did and I am glad she was there to
bring me back down to Earth a little bit. You guys, it was really frustrating. While
I got changed, I left her tied for a little while to see if she would end up
just giving up and standing, but I also didn’t want to tie her too long and
have her damage Show Buddy’s trailer. So in the end, I relented and untied her
when she was acting quiet and brought her back to her stall sans blankets and
braids.
Aside from
the anxiety and nervousness on Annie’s part, I was pretty happy that she didn’t
completely lose her cool. I have a feeling the trailer and stall stuff will all
come in due time, especially as she gets into the rhythm about what showing is
all about. As Show Buddy said, five days is a LONG time to be stalled in an
unfamiliar place that has tons of outside stimuli.
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After my class, an older lady came up and complimented how beautiful Annie is. I smiled and thanked her. |
Overall,
for a first “big” overnight (make that multiple overnights, lol) show, I was
really happy. Yes, the stall stuff and trailer stuff was annoying and
frustrating, but the horse was RIDEABLE. I didn’t have to lunge her or ride her
down for any of her classes. She did everything I asked in the saddle (maybe
with a bit of flair on some occasions) and didn’t toss me. So I count the whole
thing as a win. Default ribbons aside, I really think we earned them.
So while I
am still sad I couldn’t bring Spud, I am happy that I ended up bringing Annie
and “doing the thing”. I didn’t ride her on the Saturday or Sunday, but did
some groundwork and round-penning with an umbrella. Hilariously enough, Annie
was spooked by the umbrella, but not to the degree she was earlier. It also
didn’t take her long to be calm, quiet, and submissive during our groundwork
exercises. I will have to remember to do some purposeful groundwork prior to getting
her tacked up. She rolled in the arena as well, which was nice to see although
I did notice she had dropped some weight (*sigh* Thoroughbreds…). She had been
eating well the entire week, but on Sunday I noticed she did not finish her
Saturday night’s grain. I tried to get her to eat the left-overs, but she had
no interest. I figured that a lot of
this extra stress was due to the fact both horsey neighbors on either side of
her had left to go home and do classes. I brought her down some extra hay
during lunch time to see if I could get her to keep eating to keep her mind off
of being alone (well, not really alone… there were other horses across from her
and up the aisleway beside her), but she wouldn’t touch it. Boyfriend and I
brought her out and hand-grazed her for a bit before returning her to her stall
and she nibbled at the hay a bit, but not much.
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This was on Sunday, before we loaded up to leave. I am a big fan of just letting them figure shit out, so I just stood far enough away to monitor her. |
After Show
Buddy was done her Reining classes, we packed up the horses and got ready to
leave. I walked Annie back to the trailer and tied her – she was quieter than
she had been at the trailer, but was still refusing to stand still. Even when
Show Buddy brought her two horses up, Annie still pawed and carried on. She
seemed relieved when we loaded her up in the trailer tho, and was more than
happy to get off of Show Buddy’s rig and into ours to head the final leg home.
Has anyone
else had similar issues at horse shows with their horses being tied? Does your horse's anxiety get worse as the show goes on, or better? Does your horse have anxiety in the stalls? Did you find repetition helped that horse?
I'm sure the process of repetition will be our best friend in this case - it was a lot to ask of a horse that was just broke to ride not even 10 months ago. And for all of that, she did really, really well. Lots of things to keep improving on (as always), but she is teaching me more and more about taking risks (within reason, obv) and not getting too offended by the baby stuff.