The lessons are virtually the same, with a few ''new'' questions or exercises being asked each time. I don't particularly believe in making each lesson exactly the same, mostly because I don't want to overwhelm her or make her bored/ frustrated with having the exercise be the same thing.
|We haz the noms in the Death Box.|
The trailer stuff has been going well - Lesson 4 wasn't ground-breaking, but we did get a really big step towards positivity.
Lesson 4 was a break-down of cues and a ''lighter'' lesson. I wasn't really looking to push her further into the trailer or even for something ''more'' than our previous lesson. She offered up a nice moment wherein she stepped a hind leg onto the ramp, and subsequently scared herself and promptly backed politely down the ramp. I don't think she realized how close she was, and when she realized she had made it that much closer into the trailer, her anxiety spiked.
I didn't punish her or feed into it, but she was really stand-offish after that and she preferred to stay in the middle of the ramp vs closer to the top where she had normally been comfortable.
Instead of continuing to try and get back to where we were before, I backed her out and practiced some self-loading exercises - having her step up onto the ramp with a cluck and a tap of the whip (as needed) and we ended it there.
As I turned on my heel to lead her back to the barn, she let out a HUGE sigh.
|A break on concentration b/c Suzie|
fucking screams her head off.
YOU ARE NOT HELPING, RED MARE.
Unfortunately, Lesson 5 was about a week after Lesson 4 simply because the whole hooking up the trailer and hauling it out to the horses for 20min was getting to be a bit much. The horse trailer isn't allowed to be kept at the BOs, so we leave it at the Boy's moms place. It takes an extra 30 min or so to go get the trailer, hook up, drive out, and then drive back, park, unhitch, drive home.
|The wounds are healing really well!|
Lesson 5 was interesting - and it initially wasn't even about the trailer. I had wanted to ride and just getting Annie to PASS the trailer was a play into just how afraid she was. She wasn't bad, but she was very leery about going past the Metal Box of Death with me on her back. She did it, tho, and survived to tell the tale.
I figured I'd play around with the whole "I can't go past this thing" and on the following ride (Trailer Lesson 6), asked her to go closer and upon returning from our ride, I had her halt parallel to the trailer and wait for me to dismount. She wasn't sure about it, especially with the Death Box there, but she was good. I decided to add Spud into the mix after seeing how much confidence he brought to Annie (another post is coming!). The best thing about him is that I can push the divider over, have him in the trailer with me, and still have room to work Annie.
Sometimes it isn't necessarily about the loading thing - it's about the association with the trailer too. I felt it was important to take those steps to show Annie that we don't always load (or try to load) whenever the trailer is there. Sometimes we just ride by it and be cool, dawg.
Lesson 7 was more "loading orientated" and after we did the whole "in and out" dance, I had a lightbulb moment. I tied Annie to the trailer - she was uncertain at first, but I stayed with her long enough to ensure she was fine and plodded off to go grab Spud. Spud has been giving Annie a lot of confidence (another post is coming) and I figured, why not try adding Spud to the mix to SHOW Annie.
The amazing thing about Spud is that he's small so he doesn't get in the way and he just doesn't give a shit about anything, so I knew he wasn't going to start pawing in the trailer or freak out with Annie coming in and out.
I had moved the divider of the trailer over, so I had a large slant-type load and parked Spud at the top. I stood near his hip and much to my surprise, Annie seemed to have a light-bulb moment of her own. No, she didn't load and nothing earth shattering happened, but she seemed really curious about the fact Spud was cool with the Death Box and as the session wore on, her confidence started to blossom.
Nothing ground-breaking happened, but she was a lot more willing to join Spud vs me. I realize that Mare is gonna have to learn to trust me at some point, but Spud seems to be a good middle ground and the fact that his carelessness is rubbing off on her, is good.
The session ended positively - Annie was starting to get saturated and Spud was pretty pissed the he didn't get ALL THE CARROTS. We had a moment where Annie loaded, quite forwardly, into half of the trailer and paused to take it all in. She didn't back pedal or freak out, she just stood. I backed her out before she was pushed too much.
Slowly but surely, we're plucking away at it.